How Memory Shapes Your Learning Adventure

To quote from the book ‘Make it Stick’ -

All new learning requires a foundation of prior knowledge. To learn trigonometry, you need to remember algebra and geometry. To learn cabinetmaking, you need to have mastered the properties of wood and composite material, how to join boards, cut rabbets, rout edges and miter corners.

Memory is the glue that holds our learning together. It allows us to collect experiences, knowledge, and skills so that we can use them for future problems and opportunities.

But just like all things, our memory is also a muscle that grows as we’re learning something new. There are 3 stages in which our memory evolves as we learn something -

# 1: Goldfish Stage 🐟

When we start learning something new, we are at the Goldfish stage of memory. Our memory is poor and we rely primarily on just copying & learning. At this stage imitation = learning.

Example:

Imagine learning how to make a new dish for the first time. Your focus is primarily to just follow the recipe to the T. Chances are you might forget the details soon after!

Some things to keep in mind at this stage:

• Celebrate small victories: Acknowledge every little improvement you make in the learning process. Each step forward is a milestone worth celebrating.

• Embrace mistakes: It's okay to make mistakes during this stage. Remember that it's all part of the learning journey. Don't be too hard on yourself; instead, learn from those mistakes and use them to improve.

# 2: Human Stage 🧑🏻

When we have started learning something new but are still not experts at it - we are in the Human stage of memory. Here, our memory is a bit fickle, remembering some things while forgetting others.

Example:

Let's say you learn to play a musical instrument, like the guitar. In this stage, you might remember the basic chords and strumming patterns, but occasionally forget the more complex finger placements. It's natural to experience ups and downs as we navigate this second phase.

Some things to keep in mind at this stage:

• Emphasize progress, not perfection: Remind yourself that learning is a process, and it's okay to have moments of forgetfulness. Focus on the progress you've made rather than dwelling on what you might forget.

• Practice self-compassion: Treat yourself with kindness and understanding. Remember that everyone faces challenges while learning, and it's okay to encounter difficulties along the way.

# 3: Elephant Stage 🐘

When you become an expert at something, you have arrived at the Elephant stage of memory. In this stage, memory is like a trusted friend, effortlessly recalling information when needed. At this stage it doesn’t really seem like you’re trying to recall something - it’s just something you seem to know intuitively.

Example:

Imagine a seasoned athlete executing a complex movement flawlessly. In this stage, their muscle memory takes over. It's as if their body knows the moves by heart, allowing them to perform without any conscious effort.

Some things to keep in mind at this stage:

• Acknowledge your hard work: Reaching the Elephant stage is the result of dedication and practice. Be proud of yourself for the effort you've invested in reaching this level of proficiency.

• Allow room for improvement: Even in the Elephant stage, there's always room to grow and refine your skills. Embrace the learning process as a lifelong journey, and continue to explore and expand your abilities.

In a Nutshell 🌰

Memory is a journey filled with remarkable stages.

From the Goldfish stage, where we imitate and copy, to the Human stage, where we remember some things but forget others, and finally to the Elephant stage, where memory becomes a reliable companion, our learning evolves and strengthens over time.

As you continue on your learning adventures, treasure and nurture your memory. Embrace the magic!